Why does he insist on watching prettier, skinnier and younger pot stars being reamed or clearly faking!!?

Well, you pretty well pegged the background of porn movies. Why do men like them and women not? It seems to me that mostly the women are degraded and still do all the acting while the men seem to be just lumps standing there. Something for everyone, I guess. If a guy focuses on porn and ignores his gf/spouse, I think the guy is living in a fantasy and missing out on some reality fun. On the other hand, many guys seem to watch a lot of porn but at the same time have an excellent physical relationship with their spouse/gf. So the real question should be whether the guy is "performing" with his lady. If he is and is otherwise acceptable, then if he still watches porn, what real difference does it make? If the only issue is that you don't feel good about him watching and he is otherwise a great guy, count your blessings and accept his "hobby". I do agree, however, with your characterization of the films. Thanks for sharing that with us.