Genderqueers or transguys has this happened to you?

Well i am female bodied and identify as genderqueer i still use feminine pronouns and go by my birth name.Recently i have started seeing a therapist because i had family problems after coming out.And today i was telling her something positive that i'd done and she said "good girl" i am pre everything but she does know im gq so it offended me a little bit.Does this happen to anybody ??