Almost started crying during sex with Husband, help?

You need to start talking to him. I'm sur ehe is a reasonable person. There is no reason why two responsible adults can't talk about the specifics. It's just plain rude of him to just do it so quickly, knowing that you aren't even naturally lubricated enough. At the very least he should use some lube!!!! But honestly you need to tell him how this has all got you feeling.